Ten Sikh Women You Should Know

Ten Sikh Women You Should Know


Published on Huffington Post

If you ask Sikhs about their religion, the first thing you will hear is belief in the Oneness of God.

The second is that Sikh men wear turbans to cover their long hair, an article of faith which tragically became a target after 9/11 (See, I just did it).

But if you linger a minute longer, you will hear us beam about the equality of women in our faith. Unlike in most other religions, our scriptures are explicit about women as equal in the eyes of God.

What if you asked for names of famous Sikh women?

You will hear a short pause. Then, a slight effort in concentration, before: Ah ha! There’s Mata Tripta, the mother of the first Guru! And Mata Nanaki, the sister of the first Guru! And Mata Khivi, wasn’t she the second Guru’s wife? You will hear an earful of mothers, sisters and wives of the Ten Gurus, or Teachers of the Sikh faith in the 15th and 16th centuries. As the list ends there, you may begin to sense there is something amiss.

It’s time to confront the gap between our ideals and how we live them.

Sikh-Americans like me talk a great deal about women’s equality, but we are steeped in an old patriarchal culture that makes us complicit in the erasure of women, past and present. Even the few famous women in our history are defined in relation to their men. Their full contributions as thinkers, poets and warriors unto themselves are eclipsed by the men they supported.

The real life consequence? Sikh girls today are told they’re fully equal, and yet many are expected to carry out traditional gender roles – with few role models to suggest otherwise.

We would never tell you this, of course. You can’t blame us. There are so few of us, it’s hard to air our community’s problems – especially after 9/11, when explaining that “Sikhism” is a religion in the first place became a matter of daily survival.

In fact, as a third-generation Sikh-American activist, it took me nearly a decade after 9/11 even to begin talking about women again. After the terrorist attacks, we women tacitly agreed to put our issues on hold. We needed to protect our men first – our fathers and brothers and husbands and sons whose turbans and tanned skin marked them as primary targets for hate in the years after 9/11.

This was a mistake. As we waited (and are still waiting) for the discrimination to pass over us, some of the cultural dysfunctions in our community worsened.

Women are girls are always the first casualties within minority communities under siege.

That is no different in ours.

Just as in most patriarchal traditions around the world, the bodies of women have been considered vessels of honor in Punjabi culture. When riots and massacres swept Punjab during the 1947 Partition of Punjab and the subcontinent, some Sikh men poisoned their daughters before letting them fall into the hands of Muslim attackers – there had been widespread reports of mutilation and sexual brutalization of women.

Today in America, while many Sikh families champion education and freedom for sons and daughters alike, others have tightened control over women and girls in the 9/11 decade. In the worst anecdotes, domestic violence is an outlet for men who bear racism on the street, intermarriage an act of betrayal, and honor killings an actual threat.

But there’s another story too.

The call for liberation pulses through the Sikh tradition: it’s in our scriptures and songs and stories. Hearing the call, a new generation of Sikh women has emerged as lawyers, artists, entrepreneurs, doctors, filmmakers and more. They have found brave new ways to defend their communities while offering their own unique voices to public discourse.

I am proud to call them my contemporaries – they are sources of inspiration, wisdom and leadership in their communities who deserve to be known.

Here are 10 Sikh women who embody the highest Sikh ideal of the warrior-saint. Half are legends from early history – women who we will never fully know but whose deeds ignite our imagination as the first female warrior-saints. Half are modern-day heroines – each one stands for hundreds of Sikh women who are blazing their own paths as the warrior-saints of our era.

My hope is that the next time you ask a Sikh on the street about his or her religion, he/she will be able to name all these women. And you will already know their names.

See the slideshow on Huffington Post here.

I   THE FIRST SIKH: NANAKI  (1464 – 1518)

Born in Chahal village (Lahore, Punjab – now in Pakistan), Mata Nanaki loved and nurtured her younger brother Nanak. In 1469, Nanak experienced a divine vision as a young man and became the first Guru or “teacher” of what is now the Sikh faith. Nanaki was the first to follow him and is celebrated as the First Sikh, which literally means “disciple” or “seeker of truth.”

II   THE FIRST TO SERVE LANGAR: KHIVI  (1506 – 82)

Mata Khivi followed Guru Nanak and prepared food for all who came to hear the Guru’s spiritual discourse. When her husband Angad became the second Sikh Guru, she presided over langar, a free and open kitchen, serving food to rich and poor of all castes, faiths  and backgrounds. Today, every Sikh gurdwara in the world serves langar to the community and is open to all. Sikh and non-Sikh alike.

III   THE WARRIOR-SAINT: BHAGO  (late 1600s – early 1700s)

Born in Jhabal village (now Amritsar, Punjab), Ma-ee Bhago grew up in a time when the 10th Guru, Gobind Singh, fought to defend Sikhs against the tyranny of the Mughal regime and regional Hindu hill chiefs. During a great siege in 1705, Bhago rallied 40 deserters and led them into battle herself, sword in hand. They died fighting and became known as the Chaali Muktey – the Forty Liberated Ones. Later, Bhago became the Guru’s bodyguard, donning a turban and dressing in warrior attire. Today, she is revered as a warrior-saint.

IV   COMMANDER-IN-CHIEF: SADA KAUR  (1762 – 1832)

Rani Sada Kaur became a young widow when her husband was killed in a battle. She used the moment to transform herself into a warrior, donning a turban, armor and weaponry. She commanded battles and laid the foundation for the Sikh empire, which spanned the Punjab from 1799 to 1849. She closely advised her son-in-law as guided him as he became the first Emperor of the new Sikh empire – Maharaja Ranjit Singh.

V   FREEDOM FIGHTER: MAHARANI JIND KAUR  (1817 – 63)

Married to Maharaja Ranjit Singh, Jind Kaur was the first female freedom fighter in the struggle to oust the British from the subcontinent. After Ranjit Singh’s death, the British annexed the Punjab through bribery and treachery. Jind Kaur’s revolutionary speeches and rallying cries rattled the British who imprisoned her. She escaped – a dramatic saga in itself – and lived in exile in Nepal. Later, when finally allowed to see her son, the exiled Maharaja Duleep Singh who had been taken away when still a child, she died shortly thereafter in England in 1863 at the age of 46. She is credited for sowing the seeds of the subcontinent’s struggle for independence.

VI   THE GREAT POET: AMRITA PRITAM  (1919 – 2005)

She was the leading poet of the subcontinent in the 20th century. She is the first prominent woman Punjabi poet, novelist, and essayist, equally loved on both sides of the India-Pakistan border. With a career spanning six decades, Amrita Pritam produced more than 100 books. She represents the rise of Sikh women in the humanities – writers, artists, filmmakers and scholars.

VII   THE GREAT SOCIAL WORKER: DR INDERJIT KAUR  (1942 – )

A doctor by training, Inderjit Kaur is the President of the Pingalwara Charitable Society in Amritsar, Punjab – a famous refuge for the poor, handicapped, diseased, and mentally ill. Since 1992, she has carried the legacy of its founder, Bhagat Puran Singh, with her own bold leadership. She stands in for countless Sikh women – doctors, nurses, health-care advocates, volunteers — who selflessly care for the sick and poor.

VIII   UNIVERSAL MOTHER: PRAKASH KAUR  (1951 – )

In a country (India) notorious for female infanticide, Prakash Kaur runs a house in Jalandhar, Punjab for 60 abandoned girls. She was abandoned herself as a child- found a few hours old in a drain. Since 1993, she has rescued and raised unwanted and unclaimed newborn girls. She represents the many Sikh women fighting for women and girls against abandonment, domestic violence, sexual assault and forced marriage.

IX   CIVIL RIGHTS LAWYER:  AMRIT SINGH  (1969 – )

A formidable civil rights lawyer, Amrit Singh was one of the fiercest U.S. critics of the torture and abuse of prisoners under the Bush Administration. As an ACLU attorney, she litigated cases on torture, indefinite detention and post-9/11 discrimination. She now serves at the Open Society Justice Initiative. Her father is the 13th and current Prime Minister of India, Manmohan Singh. Amrit Singh represents a new generation of Sikh women lawyers, wielding the law as sword and shield in the civic battlefield.

X   THE SENATOR: DR ANARKALI KAUR HONARYAR  (1984 -)

Anarkali Kaur is a human rights advocate and Senator in Afghanistan. As one of a dwindling population of several thousand Sikhs remaining in war-torn Afghanistan, she fights for the civil rights of minorities and women. When the Taliban was overthrown in 2001, she joined the Grand Council, Loya Jirga, to elect the interim government, and then helped draft the country’s new constitution. She serves as the first non-Muslim woman member in the Lower House of Parliament. In 2009, at 25 years old, she was voted “Person of the Year” by Radio Free Europe’s Afghan chapter, becoming a household name in Kabul. A modern-day “Ma-ee Bhago,” Arnakali Kaur represents the rise of fearless modern-day Sikh warriors.

 



8 thoughts on “Ten Sikh Women You Should Know”

  • Hi Valerie,

    I am a lawyer and aspiring journalist from Sydney, I’d like to speak a little about your achievements and this article on sikh women on an australian punjabi TV show – please get in touch with me to help me spread your views to Australia.

  • hi Valarie how r u, i just want to make correction that Amrita Pritam was’t a sikh women . She born in sikh family but she was a daring atheist . She lost her faith in religion when she was just a child because her mother died when she kept praying to keep her alive. But the ”so called” god didn’t save her mother, where was god to save lives, truly a kindred father (god) would save his innocent children. After this revalation she stopped believing and her father beat her cause of that .

  • good to know about you and your feelings about your roots. i m proud that that the ” sanskar” injected into you by your parents and the air around you makes you what u & ur thinking is today. remember the sacrifices made by our ancestors to give the “swroop”of us..the SIKHS.keep on doing the good work that u are doing today. pl emphesise on young sikhs to feel pride by wearing a turban and keeping beard. sometimes i feel sad on seeing the modern day attire of young sikhs…propogate sanity regarding this aspect too

  • Hi Valerie:
    Great job. May you always shine!!
    I am 75, have been in the US since 1964, and was the first Sikh in this area…a paper industry small town. I needed the information on famous Sikh women for my presentation on Sikhism to local community per their request. Thanks.
    Doug Dugal (Doug is my Americanized name)

  • Hi Valerie,

    Interesting to read your article. I am always proud about the equality that the Gurus promoted regarding women and as sikhs like you mention we are proud about this. But what I seem to miss is the ‘putting into practice’ of the equality our Gurus promoted within the wider sikh communities. What however strikes me is the lack of women within Gurdwara committees or involved as part of sikh leadership. Firstly, I wonder how much encouragement there is for women to get involved or rather have the opportunity to (a problem from a perspective of the leaders). Secondly how much young sikh women are keen to get involved or requesting to be involved – are they just accepting things as they are? Seems like less is being done on a practical perspective to promote equality by both genders and yet we are happy to say we are equal. Mind you – I am not suggesting that women are being suppressed – I am just questioning about how involved they are in a community that promotes equality (and as per your article, I am surprised there not as many role models as perhaps one would have expected). I am keen to hear your thoughts or perhaps an article on this issue?

  • Guru fateh valerie

    Most of the people don’t about bibi Harparkash Kaur ji from village Sidhwan Khurd. If you are intersted to get information about her life and achivements go to http://www.G.HG Harparkash college of Education for women. Her father started first khalsa( boarding )school for girls in punjab around 1920.

  • Please consider the outstanding achievements of the Oberoi twins- two sisters that in the 1950s, just post-independence India dared to wear shorts and run/jump/throw shoulder to shoulder with the likes of Milkha Singh at National Stadium. They were reigning athletics champions who held national sports records for decades in javelin, discuss, shot-put, long jump. They ran the Olympics torch through Delhi for 1964 Tokyo Olympics. Not only that- they were university/college toppers, one ended up with a Masters, and the other with a PhD after they had children. Against all odds, and resistance from conservative India, they blazed the trail for Indian and Sikh women to enter sports, and achieve the impossible. Identical twins Manmohini and Indermohini Oberoi.

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